You need to read this

Weirdly enough, you act too much like a turtle. You fray from conflict and hide in your shell — the sanctuary of comfort.  When faced with a large obstacle, you obstinate and flee to your safety bubble. I want to tell you that you’re not alone to face chaos — we stand with you. It’s daunting, chaotic and scary. You must not fray; face the obstacle. LEARN and GROW. Life’s about growth. Trust me, better to face the inevitable now rather than later. I believe in you.