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Stop being judge mental.

Stop being judge mental.

Believe it or not, a lot of us today judge each other. Sometimes we're not even aware of it. It's like our nature. We tend to judge a girl for her makeup and what she wears. We measure her worth on the clothes she wears. We judge a guy for how he played bball, soccer, etc. How he broke a girl's heart. We forget that we are all equal, therefore we have no right to judge one another. If you know someone who's always in trouble and really tough to be with. don't judge them and hate on them because they're killjoys or a pain in the neck. You don't know what they've been through. The girl who's always dressed in rags to school might not be the "bad influence" person everyone says she is. The...

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Why we push people away and why it's not fine.

Why we push people away and why it's not fine.

Sometimes when we feel hurt or angry we tend to push people away. Often times, we end up hurting their feelings and destroying the relationship. Now, I have to admit that I too am guilty of this, but I have been trying to change it. It's not easy, but we'll get there :)  I came to realize that doing so, is not going to help solve the problem. In fact, it makes it worse. We want the other person to keep chasing us, but of course they're not mind readers. They don't know what you're thinking. Most of the times they will just assume that we want them out of our lives and stay away, which leaves us even more hurt cuz we think that we didn't matter enough to them. So, let's stop ruining...

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How you should behave in an argument

1. Always listen to the other person and shut yourself up. 2. Try to put yourself in their shoes. Understand how they feel. 3. Admit your mistakes. Let your pride down. Not doing so, will only lead to more mess and could cause you to lose that person.  4. When you apologize do it sincerely. No excuses. Not buts and if's. That'll only insult the other person.  5. Never speak while you're still angry or hurt, otherwise you might end up saying things you don't mean and end up making the other person feel a lot worse. This brings us back to step 1. Shut up haha.  6. Tell your point only when you and the other person is already calm. This will help them understand you better. 7. Always...