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LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP ā¤ļø

Will you swim in a deep ocean with me?
Will you swim in a deep ocean with me?

7Ā years relationship with my best friend / boyfriend.

Many people asking us whatā€™s our secret?Ā 

why are we still together?Ā 

why we arenā€™t that so sweet in public but we keep our relationship strong?Ā 

Well.. we only have one answer Ā 

Nothing? šŸ˜‚Ā 

I know thatā€™s a silly answer but to be honest we really donā€™t know. we just love being together even if we are not sweet in public, Actually we are sweet when no one is around. but we are not that showy in public. We donā€™t even celebrate valentines day. why ? because in our own perspective we donā€™t need this event just to celebrate of our love because we always celebrate our love and appreciate each other everyday.Ā 

we were like best friends we share thoughts we share everything what we think it maybe not a good idea for you because you will think thereā€™s no privacy but believe me sharing your thoughts together you will know alot about your partner because you donā€™t make walls or boundaries. donā€™t hesitate to tell things or to say what you feel because we both believe that is one of the reason why we are having relationship that I think many people donā€™t know about.Ā 

I actually love that the more days Iā€™m with him the more things Iā€™m knowing him 101% it feels so good that there is someone you know that you can express everything and that person will love you no matter what.Ā 

to be honest our relationship is not perfect, we also fight ofcourse, thereā€™s a moment of jealousy, anger, hate. but what weā€™ve learned donā€™t let your hate,jealousy,anger eat your relationship. let your relationship eat that negativity and it will turn in a positivity. understanding your partner is a must donā€™t make walls when you angry maybe we do mistakes but try to open your ears and heart because always remember that we are all just human. he maybe accidentally shouted you. you maybe got hurt by that. he maybe make you cry sometimes and he say sorry etcĀ but try also to understand. try to ask andĀ understand why. and ofcourse relationship consist two people and the meaning of that you should two both be open to each other and understand each other. it feels so good when you both understand each other it feels so good when you both love each other it feels so good that you get along in anything. and always remember in relationship there is always give and receive ā¤ļø

And always putĀ ourĀ God in your relationship.Ā 

7 years is maybe a long year but we actually didnā€™t noticed it. šŸ˜‚

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