Giving Correction Is Not Hate
A lot of people these days have bought a lie. They've bought into the idea that anyone who corrects them when they're wrong is committing hate speech or otherwise "bashing" them.
I have a son, and if he does something wrong, I am quick to correct him. I actually do that because I love him & care about his well-being, I don't hate him at all.
If someone is doing something detrimental to either themselves or others, "tolerating" it is not loving. Calling them out on it and holding them accountable and showing them the error of their ways is loving.