Ella R. May 16, 2018 in Dating Why I’ll Be Forever Alone. It’s become a mindless notion; to swipe left and right. You do it on the train, on the bus, in your lunch break, when you need to studying. He’s 1km away. She’s 12 miles away. It doesn’t matter where you are in the world, everyone’s doing it. Tinder. Bumble. Grindr. Welcome to the 21st Century where no one communicates anymore. The dating ‘game’ has never been more of a game as it is now. Once you get a match, it’s then another game, waiting to see who messages first. Then, if your overthinking hasn’t kicked in by then and you do end up texting - well then it’s time figure out whether this person is the following: 1. A casual hook up. 2. A ‘let’s just see...