How I figured out I was a Bisexual Unicorn ✨

I figured out I was Bisexual when I was about 13-15 years old.

I definitely felt like I was attracted to boys and girls at a younger age but I just didn’t know the name for it at the time or it it was not the ordinary thing.

I remember liking guys for years when I first attended college but also having faint feelings of love for my female friends. I seemed to drift more towards guys back then because that’s what every other girl liked and talked about so I did too but I always had a part of me that felt out of place when talking about my crushes or gossiping with my friends about who I liked.

When it finally clicked that I might be apart of the lgbt+ community I at first denied it and tried to suppress these yearnings and thoughts. I did this in fear that I might not be accepted for the way I felt. I feared that people would judge me and not want to be my friend any longer all because I liked the same sex. I feared that my family would not support me and in the end reject me.

I hid half of my true self for a few years and that really effected my relationships with my friends and family in my opinion, I would hide secrets and isolate myself from those I loved and this caused me to really feel out of place and alone.

I got through this hard time and gradually opened up about the way I felt and this truly was one of the best decisions of my life. I felt happier with myself and like I could actually be the way I wanted to be without judgement. 

I found out a whole new part of myself I never knew and it was honestly really amazing.

If you find that you can relate in any way to this I hope that by sharing my experience with you you also might find happiness in life and might find out more about yourself that you never knew before. :)

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If you have any questions or just want to chat about this post feel free to comment below or dm me :3